How we work...

We work intuitively, meeting people exactly where they are without judgement or agenda. Our approach is fluid and free from any prescribed methodology, staying true to the heart of our mutual passion for transformation; awakening as embodied conscious. Using self-inquiry, conversation, heart dialogue, touch and movement, we work to unlock and integrate the trauma stored in your body that has kept you from relating authentically. This will effortlessly reconnect you to your natural state allowing you to feel safe and easy in the world, thereby accessing your innate intelligence, the biological and spiritual imperative that is the natural well-spring of wisdom, love, joy and connection.

Between us we have a wealth of experience in various therapies and disciplines, but the primary focus of our work is marrying together the innate, intelligent spiritual/love dimension of your beings with the very vulnerable wonky humans we all appear as, supporting you in learning to relate with the difficulties you find in your relationship and in discovering new potentials, both personally and as a couple.

If you decide to commit to staying together we will support you in reconnecting to the love that originally sparked your relationship and in discovering greater depth, joy, capacity for intimacy, and possibility for a new way of being together. 

If the truth emerges that your relationship is falling away, we'll support you in ending from a place of love and respect, where you can relate clearly and truthfully throughout your separation, ensuring everyone's needs are met, negotiating and managing finances, children etc.

If one of you is dying, we'll support you in sharing your fears, heartbreak and concerns, creating special moments to celebrate the life you've shared and plan for on-going support to the partner who is left behind.

We work with clients in person at our home practice in Somerset and/or via Skype/Zoom and phone.

We offer this work because we know from experience that transformation is possible.

We've been together since 1997 and very quickly found ourselves faced with a whole bunch of difficult realities to navigate. Meeting the complex needs of our composite family of five children was our biggest priority. We co-parented with our ex's, which meant a weekly routine of comings and goings, at the same time as learning to become step-parents and support the kids in becoming a family unit. We home-schooled some of them some of the time and at one point had all five of them in different schools. There was lots of driving, huge amounts of shopping and three wash loads everyday.  

And we did well, the incredible adults we now see in front of us are a credit to that joint endeavour, and/but, with the many demands we faced, not to mention renovating an enormous Georgian house and building three businesses, our relationship began to suffer. We lacked time and resources to nurture our love and at the end of each day there was so little space for us exist as a couple. 

Predictably, seven years into the relationship things began to fall apart in ways that echoed the breakdown in our previous marriages. But instead of standing back and watching the tower fall as history repeated itself, we decided to ask for help. And that help came in the form of our spiritual teacher, Adam, a beautiful and very real human being, whose unique approach totally transformed all of our lives. With his commitment and support we cleared stuck patterns of behaviour that blocked the flow of love between us and learned new ways to relate and open to one another with sparkling, sometimes shocking truth that at one time would have shut us down. We learned to bring everything to the table and saw that beneath the annoying, fixated behaviour we'd so loathed in one another, was a vulnerable human being just struggling to be loved. 

This continuing revelation enables us to harness the immense power of the innate force of love that we all are, and discover a way of being ourselves whilst being with each other, radically accepting each new appearance of reality. It's the overflow of this that we bring to you.